My career isn't right for me anymore but I don't know what to do next
If you've been trapped between "I know I'm meant for more" and "I don't know even know what to do next", The Purge To Purpose Bootcamp will set you free.
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If this sounds familiar...
"What could I even do next?"
"I'll be so far behind if I start over"
"Will everyone think I'm crazy?"
"What if I fail and have to go back?"
"What if I can't go back?"
"What if I'm making a huge mistake?"
"Why can't I just be happy with what I've got?"
"Why is this so hard?"
...I want you to try something.
It might sound a little weird at first, but I've seen it gives answers again and again when nothing else would.
If so, I want you to try something.
Ready?✨
Take one room in your home — and clear it out.Give it all away, sell it, whatever you need to do to get rid of ALL the stuff in that room you don't completely love — even if that means you get rid of everything and leave the space totally empty.When you do, explore how you feel inside.My guess: you'll feel better than ever.
All your uncertainty will be gone (at least temporarily)
You'll feel calmer
You'll feel more empowered
You'll have exponentially more confidence about your future
More importantly, that self-sabotaging voice — the one that questions every change you want to make — will become completely quiet.Instead of hearing a voice telling you that you're crazy to want a change and you should be happy with what you've got — you'll instead find yourself comfortably exploring what you really want from the next chapter of your life and seeing all the ways things could go right.No self-doubt. No second-guessing. No negative self-talk.Taking action on what you discover will be easier too.All simply from purging & clearing out a room.Why?
Because to your brain, the things you own are like a time capsule keeping you trapped in the past.
Think about everything in your home now...
The tiny uncomfortable couch 🛋️ you've had since graduating college
The closet full of untouched dresses 👗 from 6 years ago
The cheap kitchen gadgets ⏲️ you've had forever that still work — but are clunky and drive you crazy every time you use them
They feel harmless enough.But they don't represent who you are now. They're decisions made by a younger, less experienced, less knowledgeable you.And even though they're just things...Every time you look at them, use them, or simply interact with them at all — they keep your brain locked into the same decision making mode you had as that younger, less experienced person.This is why it's like you have two voices in your head.One is who you are NOW. She desperately wants to close the current chapter and start a new one that actually aligns with her values.The other is who you were THEN. She desperately holds onto the career, relationship, city, apartment, and hobbies you already have but don't love anymore — and shuts down any attempt at change.Your problem right now is that who you were THEN is running the show. She's the one with the job, she's the one who chose the apartment/relationship/city/etc — so she gets priority.But who you are NOW is a much better decision maker — and if you followed her wisdom, long term you'd end up on a much better path.A path with more fulfillment, more money, and more meaning.So how do you balance the two?
How do you maintain the comfort & stability you have now — while also closing your current chapter and starting the next one?
This is the question that's got you stuck right now.You know you want something different — but then you convince yourself your job isn't that bad and you might never find something as comfortable that you're so good at, so why rock the boat?Followed by years going back and forth between the two.It might sound simple, but I've found that when you physically clear out the "old you", you also mentally clear her out...And without that voice sabotaging you any longer...The answers you need become obvious.You're able to fully explore what really drives you — and not only confidently define your next steps, but actually take action on them.Instead of second-guessing yourself, it just feels obvious and intuitive.I want to walk you through the entire process.I've been doing this with successful, smart, career-driven women for years — and I know that if you do it right, in as little as 4-6 weeks you can have:
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A completely redefined living space that reflects who you are now.
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Complete clarity on what your next steps are.
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And an action plan you'll already be implementing to take those next steps — and finally begin your next chapter.
If you've been stuck now for months or even years, it's time to get you un-stuck.
Introducing...
The Purge to Purpose Bootcamp
Find clarity and discover what's next in your career & life — by strategically purging & decluttering everything that's keeping you stuck.
Purge
First you'll clear out everything that's keeping you stuck
Empty Space
Then you'll sit in the empty space to let your mind work its magic
Self Exploration
You'll figure out who you are now — and what she really wants
Inspired Action
And you'll learn how to make those plans your new reality — fast
The Purge To Purpose Bootcamp will show you how to:
Purge your stuff quickly — and permanently.
Anyone who's tried to get rid of their stuff knows how hard it is. There's an excuse to keep everything — "this is too sentimental", "this is too expensive", "I may need this again in the future". I'll show you how to overcome this resistance — and fully clear out your past.
Use the empty space to figure out who you are now — and what's next.
Getting rid of stuff you've held onto for years is frightening — because to your brain, you're also throwing away an identity you've spent years building. But once that identity is gone, you'll find yourself in the most creative headspace you've been in for years — maybe ever. I'll show you how to get there and use it strategically to design your next steps.
Confidently pivot it all into a new career — and your next chapter.
At the end of the process, you'll have complete clarity about what to do next to build the perfect career (and life) for you now — and have the action steps laid out to make it a reality.
To be clear, this is not a "theory" course.There's homework. A lot of it. And that's on purpose.The purpose of this course is to get you actively and strategically purging the "old you" — and then following step-by-step methods & workbooks to clearly define (and take action on) your next chapter.When you're done, you WILL know what's next in your life.You WILL know the next steps to take in your career.You WILL have total confidence to take action on all of it.And I guarantee the uncertainty you have now that's been plaguing you for years — about your career, your relationships, and the direction of your life — will be gone.It WILL be replaced with clarity, confidence, and certainty.
About your instructor ✨
Hey 👋🏼 I'm Shaina.I stumbled on the Purge To Purpose method long ago when I was trapped in a dead-end job, in a going-nowhere relationship, living in a city I didn't care for at all — and stuck because even though it wasn't fulfilling, it was comfortable.I journaled, listened to hours of YouTube and podcasts, read every book in the self-help section of Barnes and Noble looking for answers...But nothing clicked — until I actually started taking action.Since then I've taken countless women through this process in my private coaching program and the results are always profound. I've seen women find their dream careers, start immediately-lucrative side hustles, change cities, change countries, get into their dream relationships, and so much more.I hope I get to help you next!
What kind of results can you expect?
Within weeks or months of starting, the women I've walked through this method have gone from fully stuck to:
Starting profitable side hustles or full-time businesses
Switching to more fulfilling careers in totally new fields
Finding better career opportunities with the skills they already have
Quickly reviving stagnant & failing businesses
And so, so, so much more.
But most also find themselves ejecting from long-term dead-end relationships, leaving cities they've lived in for years, taking extended trips they've dreamt about forever, developing new hobbies, and confidently doing the things that make them feel happy & fulfilled they never allowed themselves to do before.TL;DR: when you turn off the self-sabotaging voice in your head clinging to your past, you end up with a lot more than just a new career.
I feel like a different person! I cannot recommend this program enough. Thank you 1000 times for your guidance.
Raphaela S.
I am on cloud 9 right now, amazing things are happening!
Ashleigh D.
I got my first check today as a consultant on my own! I couldn’t have gotten here without the work together.
Kaylan P.
This is one of the best things I've ever done for myself.
Angela P.
What's inside
What's inside the bootcamp
The bootcamp starts with six video modules breaking down the core concepts you'll need to begin your journey.
Module 1
Become the exception
There are rules and invisible scripts (from family, peers, and society) you're operating by right now that aren't serving you — and in this module, I'll not only introduce them to you but also install the mindset you need to effectively tune them out.
The half dozen words you use every day that keep you stuck
Which thoughts are crippling your decision making and how to turn them off
Identifying the rules you need to follow — and which you can ditch
Module 2
Declutter your home
The meat and potatoes of the course — we dive right into getting rid of all the things (physical belongings AND the limiting beliefs they're causing you to hold onto) that are keeping you small and stuck in your life.
The only two reasons you hold onto any item in your home (and how to repurpose them to make decluttering effortless)
Identify the thoughts you've attached to certain items — and how they're keeping you stuck where you are now
My exact process for decluttering fast
Module 3
Declutter your digital life
It's not just your physical stuff that's keeping your brain stuck — it's the digital noise you're surrounded by too. In this module you'll learn how to curate your digital footprint and social media accounts.
How your laptop and phone are keeping you stuck (but not in the way you're likely thinking)
The key areas you need to digitally purge to get the most results
The Unsubscribe/Unfollow/Delete Checklist (just follow these steps and see how clear and free your brain immediately feels)
Module 4
Holding space for clarity to be born
Getting rid of your physical & digital stuff is essentially like getting rid of the "old version" of you — which is scary, but also where clarity about your next chapter is born.
Why you need to keep your space empty for a while (and how to use this phase to discover answers you've been seeking for years)
The #1 biggest mistake I see that leads to self sabotage (and makes the entire decluttering process pointless)
Why your brain starts giving you negative self talk & doubt when you purge (and how to counteract it to achieve MASSIVE growth)
Module 5
Discover your authentic self
If your current career isn't right for you, then what is? In this module you'll discover your unique passions, talents, skills, personality traits, and desires — all of which will point you toward where to go and what to do next.
How to identify the voice in your head that's telling you what to do next (instead of the voice that's keeping you off track)
The self-discovery method you use now that DOESN'T work (and what actually does)
My step-by-step process for finding your true passions
Module 6
Identify your next path
In the final module, you'll learn how to confidently make inspired decisions about your future that easily attract people, places, and things into your home and life — and fully step into your next chapter without hesitation or second-guessing yourself.
Why thinking through your problems keeps you stuck (and what to do instead)
The mistake you're making now that keeps you from reaching your true potential (this is why you always unnecessarily limit yourself)
My strategies for quieting the voice that doubts your plans (it'll always be there) — and how to easily override everything it says
Plus interactive worksheets
The purpose of this course isn't to sit back, watch videos, and do nothing — it's about taking ACTION and DOING THE WORK. These worksheets are your homework. Do what they say and you WILL see changes — fast.
Worksheet
The Break The Rules Worksheet
There are countless rules you've been following in your life that are keeping you stuck and small that sound like: I have to, I can't, I should, I shouldn't, I'm afraid of what he/she will think if I do/don't. We'll identify what's not serving you and cut them out.
Worksheet
The Things I Love/Dislike Worksheet
There are some things you own that you love, and there are some things you just don't care for. We'll identify a few of each, dissect exactly what about them makes you feel that way, and use that to discover your true passions.
Worksheet
Home & Life Connection Worksheet
Decluttering is hard and at first you're going to keep stuff you dislike. What narratives does that stuff speak to you and how else are those narratives showing up in your life? We'll identify them in this worksheet.
CHEATSHEET
Physical Clutter Cheatsheet
If you've ever tried decluttering (and I know you have), you know how hard it is to make any progress at all. This cheatsheet will give you a few simple steps to keep making forward progress.
CHECKLIST
Declutter & Minimize Checklist
Decluttering always seems easy until you start — and slowly realize there are literally hundreds of nooks and crannies you need to attack. This checklist breaks them all down so you can clear with ease.
CHECKLIST
Digital Clutter Checklist
It's shocking all the ways digital clutter can enter your life and keep you stuck in old, outdated narratives. Use this checklist to break up your digital decluttering journey — and attack every place your brain might be getting stuck.
CHEATSHEET
Clearing The Way: Energy Exercises
Once your space is decluttered, it helps to have a ritual to make it feel safe. Here are a few of my favorite exercises for doing exactly that.
CHEATSHEET
Who Am I? Cheatsheet
Every woman I've worked with gets tripped up by the same thoughts after they've decluttered — and correcting them is surprisingly easy. Here's how to explore and understand who you really are once you've cleared out the "old you".
Worksheet
What Makes Me Awesome Worksheet
When you stop to love and appreciate what's awesome about you now, you become a super attractor for every great thing that comes next. The results you'll see from this simple worksheet will shock you.
Worksheet
The Curiosity Trail Worksheet
It helps to have a way to jot down every curiosity and interest that pops into your head during the day — and then use that list to decide what hobby or interest you want to engage in and go deeper with. We'll do just that with this worksheet.
CHEATSHEET
The 3Ns Cheatsheet
I have a simple system for identifying the true passions you need to diver deeper into that I call The 3Ns. Refer to this cheatsheet to understand exactly how to apply the 3N technique at any time to change your life.
And amazing bonuses
These bonuses will help you get even more out of the course — and even get back your investment in the course within the first few weeks.
Bonus
3 hours of coaching replays
Watch me coach other women LIVE implementing the Purge To Purpose process and stepping into deeper levels of joy, freedom, and success. These replays are from my exclusive $5,000/quarter private coaching group.
$439 value — FREE with The Purge To Purpose Bootcamp
Bonus
The 15 Minute Daily Work Workbook
Use the Purge to Purpose Bootcamp + The 15 Minute Daily Work Workbook to quickly feel good throughout your day and uncover the solutions and ideas for your future.
$79 value — FREE with The Purge To Purpose Bootcamp
Bonus
Sell Your Clutter For Cash
I'm the Craigslist queen! If you want to make some extra cash while decluttering — AND make your investment in the course back quickly — this video will teach your how to sell anything FAST (electronics, clothes, furniture, décor)!
$49 value — FREE with The Purge To Purpose Bootcamp
Reality check
How much is it costing you to stay stuck?
I'm talking about:
Spending thousands of dollars on career coaches
Staying on a career path you don't want to move up in (so don't expect any meaningful increases in your income)
Wasting your time doing work that doesn't ignite you
Soothing yourself when you get home with endless YouTube and TikTok and Netflix because you're so drained and don't have the mental power to do anything else
Throwing away your youth doing things that feel meaningless (but not knowing yet what actually does bring you meaning)
Feeling your body fall apart from non-stop, 24/7 stress & uncertainty
Avoiding social situations because you feel so far behind and don't think you can keep up or contribute to conversations
If you stay on the path you're on now, you already know in your gut that you will burn out.It's not a matter of if — it's when.And every minute you stay on that path is more time you're losing — time you should be spending creating a path you love, that will pay you significantly more while leaving you more relaxed, happy, and fulfilled.You'll have to carve that path for yourself eventually.So why not now?The Purge To Purpose Bootcamp will show you how.It will be worth 10x-100x (or more) what you pay to join.And you can use the process as many times as you need.
If you discover this course isn't right for you for any reason, contact me any time in the next 30 days to get 100% of your money back — no questions asked.
"Won't my family and friends think I'm insane if I clear out all my stuff and hit the reset button?"
There's no way around it: of course they will.The people closest to you only know the "old you", so to them, clearing out your stuff and changing your career and making radical pivots in your life will seem extreme.To them, everything in your life looks perfect on the surface.But are they living the life you want to live?Do you look at them and think, "I want everything they have"?If yes — well, maybe they've got some great advice that's worth listening to. I'm a big believer in modeling people who already have what you want.But if not — why should they decide how you design your life?In that case, the only voice you should be listening to is your gut.And that's exactly what The Purge To Purpose Bootcamp is designed to help you do: show you how to silence the self-sabotaging voice that tells you everything's fine and you'd be a fool to change anything — and instead follow exactly what your gut is telling you to do.Which will turn you into the woman those same people look at and sigh, "She's so lucky. I wish I had what she has."If it doesn't, just ask for a refund any time in the next 30 days.No "proof" necessary.It's on me to prove to you this process works.I want you to use this — then decide if it's worth it.I guarantee it will change your life.And I can't wait to see you inside!
— Shaina
FAQs
Frequently asked questions
Is this just a one-time process or can I use it multiple times throughout my life?
I encourage you to use this process every time you feel stuck in your life!Life is meant to have many chapters — but most people ignore that and stay stuck.This process will break you out of that cycle.Personally, I aim to do this process annually — because it consistently helps me find the answers I'm seeking about what to do next in my life, big or small.
Can't I just declutter on my own?
Absolutely, but this program isn't just about decluttering. In fact, decluttering is simply a tool this program uses to do one very specific thing: force you to let go of the old stories that are keeping you stuck — and enter a space where you can discover what's next.When you try to declutter on your own, you're going to run into resistance.
I don't know where to start
I don't know what to do
I'm not sure I should get rid of this
But this was so expensive
But my mom/ex/friend/boss gave this to me
It's that resistance that this program is focused on — showing you not only how to overcome it, but how to completely silence the voice that's causing that resistance in the first place.Because, surprise surprise, it's that same voice that's keeping you stuck right now.
How fast will I see results?
You will see results almost immediately. Like, within the first few days of applying the process.How fast it'll take to finish the process and have your next career/life path defined — many students are done within 90 days, and some take up to 6 months.But just trust the process and do the work — and you will get the results I've promised.
Can I get a refund if this course isn't right for me?
Absolutely! Listen, I've worked with enough smart, driven, hard-working women to know that if you feel lost in your career and life... and you've tried just about everything else to find answers (therapy, coaching, journaling, meditating, endless YouTube and TikTok and podcast binges)... but you're still STUCK...There's a very good chance the Purge To Purpose process will work for you.That's because it takes you out of your head — and forces you into intentional ACTION.But you can only know by going through it.And I want you to feel fully confident trying it out. If it turns out it's not right for you, you can get all your money back.So send me an email any time in the first 30 days of your purchase asking for a refund and you'll get it — no questions asked.I'm grateful you're giving the program a shot and I truly hope it changes your life (and that you email me when it does!).
What if I don't have a lot of stuff?
Then this process will probably be even MORE impactful for you — because each item you intentionally declutter following the system will help you let go of your "old" self even faster.This isn't about becoming a minimalist with no stuff. It's about getting rid of the items that are causing you to hold onto old, outdated stories — and free your brain to create a better future more aligned with your values and purpose now.
Is there a coaching element to this or is it self-guided?
This program is a self-guided do-it-yourself course.If you know you need more one-on-one guidance, I do offer group coaching. Click here to learn more.
How much time does this take?
This is NOT a slow process.While you'll see complete results in anywhere from 90 days to 6 months, you will have to put in a lot of work to get there. But — it's fun work.And it's much better than the alternative you've been doing, which is spending months... sometimes years... running in circles trying to figure out what's next (but getting nowhere).This will be one of the most valuable processes you'll ever put yourself through — and none of it will feel like "work".
If you discover this course isn't right for you for any reason, contact me any time in the next 30 days to get 100% of your money back — no questions asked.
